"you have disappointed Me this evening, W/we will have to work on that." She had said quietly as She opened the door to the car Herself. Leaning down to gaze into the car "lori will send you a list of items to bring on your next visit. you would do well to think about what you are really wanting, the choices you have to make, before returning, Is this really what you want?" With that parting remark She had left, walking into the house quickly and turned off the light.

he had returned to his own home that night and thought about what had happened, the list that lori had left in his mail as to what to bring and what all that could mean. The decision had tormented him all today but he had known deep inside that he would have to come back out, at least for one more time if for no other reason than to see what She had in mind for him. That thought crossed his mind just as he pulled in the driveway of Her house. The thought warming him as fears rush back to caress him as well.

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It can take on whatever form you feel comfortable with if you want to embrace the whole leather scene and use tools on your man to train him then do so.
How soft or hard you decide to be again is down to personal preference, never be forced into doing something your not happy with as neither of you will enjoy the experience.

Find out what drives your man wild what he is personally into does he have a leather fetish, a boot fetish, or a strong desire to be spanked.

Once you have discovered what does it for him, use it to your advantage get him aroused and then let him serve you.

While he serves you whether its oral sex, massages etc keep him aroused but deny him otherwise he will fail to serve you adequately.

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