By letting this happen they generally discover a freedom
in their behaviour as they have had to repress their natural
dominance for so long.
Also being dominant does not necessarily mean that you have
to be aggressive; it is more about being assertive.
You will find that letting this out has a knock on effect
in other areas of your life, and you will naturally feel more
confident.
Depending on your relationship it is up to you as individuals
to discover how much D&S behaviour you want to allow into
your lives.
You may decide on several sessions per week, depending on time
and other factors such as family life.
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